So this might be so yesterday for a lot of my readers, but dear friends I have come across the concept of BULLET JOURNALING. For those in the dark like me until the weekend – I have come to understand Bullet Journalling to be (and you are welcome to quote me): the act of decorating / colouring in your yearly / weekly / monthly planner, shopping lists, gratitude list and lots of stuff mental healthy that are fabulous for you. And I think that the acronym for it is BUJO – but I could be mistaken, and this could end up being a poorly (perhaps rudely) entitled blog. Either way, nothings swinging this happy “bujo’er”: Did I say you get to colour it in? Did you hear that good for you bit? That it helps you relax bit? And that there are generous doses of improvements of your mental health involved? Win, win, win.
Over my long and delightful bullet journaling career (2.5 days and one night where I dreamt about it) has brought me to a couple of realisations: 1) People prefer pretty. planned and neat, including the creator. BUJO’s are pretty, creative, artistic, unique. They are also carefully planned, succinct and functional. And I’m learning that perhaps my blog should be the same. I can reflect on the nasties that are happening to me – but I am a horror movie / video / image WIMP – and perhaps other people are too. So ala BUJO – I’m going to in future, use my literary pencil crayons and colour to draw my experiences, but neither you nor I will need additional therapy for reading my blog. Promise.
2) I LOVE LISTS, especially flowery, heart arrowy, with a poignant quote penned at the bottom to motivate you for the day. I have NO need to complete all my tasks / lists everyday, but by simply emptying your mind on paper, in my experience, your “brain” can breathe a bit. I feel like my brain can stop doing push ups, and can take a much needed rest, or in my case, probably a bite of a doughnut. These lists help me and you can say what you like – they help me even more, when they’re colour coded, categorised, scrapbook-ised things. Pretty and planned? Salivates…
3) Mental Health matters: I’ve spent tons of time complaining instead of actively building up my mental health – investing in being and staying well. So far my BUJO escapade has taught me how to draw a mandala (it’s skew and unaligned, focus here, the LESSON is the important part), has made me believe I can KINDA draw, and that I can relax. And I’ve taken on a little BUJO “project” which is a labour of love for someone special. What am I saying? Anything that makes you smile a little, expand your horison, teach you a new skill, and importantly makes you have some positive mental health me time is for this Bipolar girl a BIG BUJO YES.
4) Mood Trackers. Any BUJO someone has a good mood tracker, ideally self conceptualised into for example, a cup with foliage growing out of it, where each leaf is coloured in with a mood for the day. These moods are captured in the tracker key. I got round to all the first bits, and my leafy cup looked fabulous. Then I realised I had to capture my moods in one day – or a “mood for the day”. I was about to pen happy-sad-fine-cross, and realised that perhaps I needed different descriptions. The jury is still out on appropriate moods to add to the key so do, do, do – let me know. But tracking your mood to help you grow / know / whatever, is again, a resounding yes.
Lastly – and sheepishly – I am learning the skill of being succinct (present and past blogs not included). It is sometimes better – though more complicated – to convey complex information simply, and succinctly. The KISS principle is key… Keep It Simple / Short Stupid! I will learn and I will learn with time. But now you’ll excuse me, Tuesday 20-03-18 can do with a flower or two, a contribution to my gratitude list, and anything else BUJO-ey. Be part of those who support us as opposed to those who don’t. I am 4M’s Bipolar Mom.