Dear Friends and Fellow Bloggers, I hope that you are as well as you can be. My husband has travelled to Paris for work. For us it is a fancy place and my children and I imagine that he is doing nothing other than consuming expensive french-baked goods by the minute. Before he left, I tried to hide my dismay, cried quietly before falling asleep in fear for the time he wouldn’t be around. For the very big part he plays in my and our routine that can’t be filled by anything else. He knows to wake me up on time, how I take my coffee to the precise measure and mostly offers calm and peace to a being beset by a storm.
There was a man who also had a poorly wife and he described her illness as a puzzle that could not be solved. Those vexed by the next piece or completion are frustrated and make great show expressing this. Imagine how they feel he said, in the dangerous and urgent pursuit of a puzzle that can only temporarily be eased. Sigh. I am most afraid that he will realise that it’s better to not be with a person with a puzzle. The person whose mind can change on a whim, who forgets, rarely sleeps well and requires ongoing medical care. I wouldn’t want to because then you wouldn’t have a partner or wife, you’d have a patient.
I always try to be happy, I try to hope for the best. I pray, work hard, and try to do right by my family but there are many times when I really can’t and the addition of the puzzle is perplexing with soul-wrenching exhaustion. I want to get up and fight. I want to feel the might for it. I don’t want to feel the washing machine churning inside my being that reminds me of the several reasons why someone like me is a loud and large dead-end. I feel sad and right now alone. But I think I have to find some ways why a person with a puzzle like me is important, especially me, whether you are in Paris or not.